Comfort, Courage and Clarity

Comfort and Inspiration with Author and Educator Mrs. Miriam Ribiat

Regular Me

By |2021-02-25T12:39:18-05:00September 20, 2016|

One day I stopped and said, “I was always plain ordinary me. I am just so regular. What happened? My life is not regular anymore.” Regular is a very broad word. What is regular for me may not be regular for someone else. But I think that most people will agree that their vison of regular does not include sitting at the bedside of three family members, watching [...]

Dear Tanta Goldy

By |2021-02-25T12:39:18-05:00September 19, 2016|

Dear Tanta Goldy, Although you were sick for a long while, with your petirah I realize how much I learned from you and how very much I miss you. You were so warm and caring, with a heart open wide toward anyone you met. You never judged people for their flaws and frailties; rather, you always saw a whole person, who, like everyone, had both positive attributes and [...]

If I Were Dr. Seuss

By |2021-02-25T12:39:18-05:00June 9, 2016|

If I was Dr. Seuss, my latest book might sound like this:  I miss my parents every day, I always miss them in every way. I miss them when I’m here, and I miss them when I’m there. I miss them when I’m feeling sad, I miss them when I’m feeling glad. Do you miss them also? Do you, can you feel my pain? I miss them when [...]

Finding Hope

By |2021-02-25T12:39:19-05:00May 15, 2016|

Recently I was talking to a few friends, and the conversation turned to the word hope and its definition. I realized that for me the definition of hope is recognizing that regardless of what comes my way, I can be okay. I might have to work through the emotions of sadness, anger fear… but at the end I can be okay. A few weeks before my mother died, [...]

What Does Hashem Want from Me Now? Learning to Let Go

By |2021-02-25T12:39:19-05:00May 11, 2016|

I had called Esti on her office line on that Tuesday afternoon. Oftentimes when she was at work she didn’t answer the phone. It meant that she was probably in a meeting. During the workday she never answered her cell phone. So it didn’t make much sense that I even tried calling her on that phone. But what made even less sense was that she answered. “Esti,” I [...]

New Release! To Comfort and Be Comforted: A Guide to Nichum Aveilim

By |2021-02-25T12:39:19-05:00April 4, 2016|

Yated Powerful Times Ten! Real comments overheard by those visiting shivah homes: “You still have other children.” “Don’t worry, you’re young. You’ll get remarried.” “At least he had a long life!” Have you ever walked into a shivah house (house of mourning) and been dismayed by what you are seeing or hearing? Perhaps other visitors are engaging in social chitchat or taking calls on their cell phones. Maybe they are offering platitudes, [...]

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